i just went through a break up with my partner of 5 years.i am in university and my major is psychology.i am fascinated by human behaviour but lately i have noticed i find many people very easy and i tend to be manilpulative at times to control circumstances.i do not enjoy this.help?
Learn to ACCEPT, and make it your goal for awhile. It is what it is, not what you can make it.
Then you might start learning psychology.
Teach yourself not to do it and remember what it is you are trying to avoid when you manage to avoid manipulating people.
you could have a personality disorder
check it out
It’s good that you’re noticing your negative behavior and you want to change it. That’s the first step. Now, you just need to work at changing.